There’s nothing quite like commencement exercises at the University of Mississippi. Twice I’ve had the memorable experience, and can vividly recall details of each occurrence.
The first time was in 1980, when I received my bachelor’s of arts degree in Journalism. Three years of academic rigor, social advancement and spiritual discipline culminated the day before Mother’s Day. My proud parents, grandparents and two younger brothers were there. My lovely fiancée was at my side. My classmates and I joined in cheers of jubilation and exchanged congratulations all around.
I don’t recall who delivered the keynote address that year. Obviously, I also don’t remember any words of wisdom shared (though I’m pretty certain there must have been some spoken at various points).
I do remember it was very humid inside Tad C. Smith Coliseum that day. The building was filled to capacity with graduates on the floor and their families and friends seated in the surrounding arena. I took my place in line and waited for my name to be called. When it was, I confidently strode onto the platform, took the empty diploma case in one hand and shook Chancellor Porter L. Fortune’s hand with the other while the photographer snapped our picture. It was a very happy moment.
My second and last commencement was in 1993, when I was awarded my master’s of arts degree also in Journalism. Because I was working in UM’s Office of Public Relations, and later, for the Center for the Study of Southern Culture, my status was part-time student. This meant it took me four years to complete what normally would have required half that time or less.
My wife, our two elementary school-aged children and my mother were the only ones there this time. I knew just a few of the other students who, like myself, were older and more mature (meaning no cheers like before).
The coliseum wasn’t quite as crowded for some reason. Nonetheless, when I actually received my empty diploma case, my heart was even more filled with joy and thankfulness. Time seems to have a way of making us more appreciative for our blessings in life.
Every commencement is different for every student, whether undergraduate, graduate or doctoral. Yet all experiences are connected by a sense of personal fulfillment and hope for a bright future for having made it through the higher education process.